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Random thoughts
My son is 4 years old; adopted at birth 2 states away. We haven't been to visit bmom family yet, but we plan to maybe even this year.
DS has 3 birth sisters living with bmom--one older and 2 younger. Anyone got thoughts on sibling relationships? I know DS is going to struggle his whole life with "she kept them but gave me away". He'll grapple with that whether we have contact or not. But I would like him to know his sisters, perhaps at the level you would know your cousins who live out of town. I'd like to think by the time he's an adult he could contact them or not as HE chooses.
I have read some other posts on this website about birth-siblings but thought I'd check with you folks, given your experiences.
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