Stephanie - I'm really glad to hear that. I almost always find it helpful to write out my situation and have an outsider's (i guess not really emotionally) perspective on the situation. I'm happy that you have decided to discuss this with her, as well. I think that it definitely will be beneficial to all parties involved and it will help your relationship to grow stronger. Good for you for stepping out of your comfort zone to try to make that effort.
Best of luck!
Laurie