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I to am looking for this sort of adoption situation. I hope that when my bmom and I find each other there will be a loving relationship between us. I feel that it will be in the best interest of all concerned. I look to be a positive influence in her life so that she will Always know she made the right choice in the Aparents for the baby daughter we will share.
Unless it is their expressed wish I just cannot see bmoms being excluded, I cannot and will not try to speak for all bmoms but I must believe that most all of them love the babies they intrust to Aparents. The very reason they are making the choice to choose adoption is love. And KNOWING that the Best way to love Their babies is to find the Right Aparents to love them to. I can not say weather or not Open adoption will make the choice any easier, I can only hope that the right parents both birth and adoptive come together and the children know that they are loved by all concerned.
Open Adoption : For me is the blessing of loving and being loved by my adopted daughter, her birth mother and all others who wish to be inclued.
Waiting for Miranda
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May you have hope, keep faith, know peace, trust God, and know that Your Loved.
Friends Always
Donna
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