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I was curious.....
Hi Ray....I am a reunited b-mom to a 31 year old daughter placed at birth in a closed adoption. After I reunited with my daughter she shared a lot of untruths that she said not only were told to her but also that she swore were on her birth certificate that her parents conviently misplaced.... They told her I was 19, married and she was born of an affair. I was 16, single, and deeply in love with her b-dad. They also told her she was born in Cali....NOT! After hearing all the lies I felt confused and needed to prove to myself that she was indeed my child. For that reason I got her b/c and later did DNA testing. On an emotional level, I wanted EVERYTHING attached to her that I had to hand over at the placement. I just needed to see and touch and reconnect with the moment....sound silly? You bet, but it was soooo uplifting.
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