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I think that J sacrificed so much..down to who she was as a person because she had to keep things from the people she loved the most (her family) because she felt that society would look upon her or her family badly for being 20, pregnant and single. She sacrificed the opportunity to have any other children, by relinquishing the only child she would ever carry to another family to love and raise.
As far as being able to parent me? Well she was working and raising her 16 year old brother at the time, living on her own and my bfather as soon as he found out she was pregnant chose to have nothing to do with her ever again. So no she did not have any support system, and was already overwhelmed and made the choice to want something MORE for me...
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Maybe what I wrote was read wrong?
What I meant was, most bmoms didn't just one day decide to have a child for another couple and "sacrifice" their happiness to make someone else's life complete.
Most bmoms weren't able to take care of their children and needed someone else to be parents to the child.
Is it not true? Adoption is when the bparents aren't able to provide for the child and transfer parental rights to someone who is able, willing and ready to care for a child?
It's not like she (bmom) purposely sacrificed her happiness to make someone else a mother.