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Old 03-01-2007, 10:23 AM
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Originally Posted by manni28
Isabo:

while I agree with everyone on this thread I really can't agree with this quote.

I'm adoptee and the way I see it, my bmom was unable to parent me so she Needed someone else (amom) to do the job. I don't think bmom's sacrifice; a lot of them weren't given the support they needed so adoption was the only way.

The aparents were able to do the job because they were ready and able to be parents

Bmom's don't sacrifice?! Um, okay, yeah...whatever.


*I am not trying to generalize here, while I realize that placement and relinquishment isn't a sacrifice for some birthmoms, but I do believe that for most bmoms it was a huge sacrifice*
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