Frida, I hope you hear something soon. I think the "waiting to hear back" is horrible. I sooooo wish the system could be a little easier! But, I know they have to find the best family possible for the child. And that takes time. And while I think we are a great family, I'm sure there are 10000 out there better than us. But I keep hoping and praying. It will happen one of these days.....
As to what to do with the wait. When I get really bored (usually after the kids and DH are in bed) I rearrange the room. I think I have rearranged it about once a week for the last 3 months! Little neurotic, I know!