02-24-2007, 10:30 AM
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I would meet the child. Our DD was and still is tiny...most 3 year olds are bigger than her and she is 5.5 yo and been with us since she was 10 months old. We had a few horrid photos and a minimul medical history...and she was hospitalized her entire life due to being so sick.
What are the firstmom's stats? DD's first mom was tiny...barely 5 feet tall and only 100 pounds...so we are assuming she will favor her. DD has a little head...but it is in proportion to the rest of her body. Look for a growth curve...regardless of where it is, does she have a good curve. DD's was well below zero...and stayed there for quite a while after coming home...it wasn't until she had been home over 3 years that she finally spurted.
I would worry less about the drugs than I would about drinking. Check out some of the threads here in relation to the drugs.
Good luck, praying you find peace in whatever decision you make.
Karen
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Proud Mommy to two...who have taught me I can not change their pasts but I can change me and the way I parent them~
*Yaya~My Siberian Sweetie ~born in 2001~Home 2002~Now 8 and a 'Tween', and in 3rd grade. She's all girl!!! 
*Bubbs~My Samaran Sunshine~born in 2003~Home 2004~now 6, in Kindy and such a sweet, silly & special boy! 
'My wish, for you, is that this life becomes all that you want it to, your dreams stay big, and your worries stay small, You never need to carry more than you can hold, and while you're out there getting where you're getting to, I hope you know somebody loves you, and wants the same things too, Yeah, this, is my wish.'
~"My Wish" by Rascal Flatts
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