[RainyInGA]

YOU GET SLEEP AND GO MEET THAT CHILD!!!!
Face to face, you will see how they react & function. Being a mom already, has given you way more skills that you give yourself credit for!! You will know if there is something wrong- red flags. have the doc check too of course, but there is nothing like seeing the child for yourself.

I say this so adamently because I too, was handed a scary file & a HORRIBLE pix just 30 minutes off the plane! I started to say "no thanks" when suddenly they opened the door and this little darling quietly walked into my arms. unprepared, I sat down and got to know the child.They even let me take her to a Russian hospital for specialized testing the next day because of my concerns. When we got home HALF of all the stuff in her file proved untrue.

If I had not met her face to face I wouldve lost out on the child I knew was meant to be ours.


Good luck. trust your heart.