No suggestions for you other than maybe try to get some sleep and see how you feel in the morning........So sorry that your trip was so tough, and that the referral is now so stressful on top of a hard trip. Since we are still in Moscow, I guess I am awake with ya, while most in the states may just be waking up!!
Everyone is different, but I think that I would relook at their info you have in the morning, or after a nap, but also listen to your instincts as that can be just as valid as whatever an IA doc tells you from over the ocean. Are the growth stats consistenly below the chart range (growing consistent pattern, but staying small)? If you were to 'correct' the age for how much of a preemie they were does that help at all (thats what our doc did for our boy, and he wasnt really so far below the chart, more like following along the bottom!!). Just thoughts.
No matter what, our thoughts are with you, and we hope that you find your child and meet them soon!!!
