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I am a bmom.
I chose my bdaughters parents through a letter.
I am also prochoice but I honestly do not think I would have wanted to know that information.
I wanted to know that my birthdaughter was going to grow up in a home that had two loving parents. Who loved each other and could share that love. I also wanted to know their view on God (if any), the way they felt about discipline and about their family.
I had 3 letters in front of me from 3 different sets of aparents wanting to adopt. They were all great families but the one that kept sticking with me was from an adad that said he once surprised his wife with furniture tables that he had made by hand.
I chose that family. Maybe because my own dad had done that for my mom and it showed a caring giving man.
So you never know what is going to stick out in a bmoms mind.
My birth daughters parents are both great parents.
I still do not know about their infertility issues and it has been eighteen years. I just knew they wanted to be parents and could not biologically. I am so HAPPY that they chose adoption!
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