C_Amos - When I read your words it was like I was reading the thoughts of my very soul. I've read a lot of posts on this wonderful website and haven't really had the nerve to post something myself (though I have often thought about it) until now. I am too, an adoptee that hasn't met my bparents, nor do I really have a huge desire to do so, but if I ever did I would say some of your VERY same words. So to all the bMoms/parents out there please know that your decision was the right one and in your bchild's heart they know you made the biggest sacrifice of your life to let them go. You did the single most UN-SELFISH thing in this world and spared your feelings to give them life. I admire every single one of you. God bless and please keep the positive thoughts flowing...
Happy just to be alive...
Julia
