Hello, my husband is active duty army. We adopted our first daughter when we were 23. Is there a particular reason you want to adopt in Germany vs. in the US? If you do US I would suggest waiting till you come back here. We have never had a problem working with an agency, but they do want both parents involved. I know being in Germany requires a lot of work hours on an active duty member. If you are willing to wait till you come back to the states I would research the different laws and agencies around bases. For ex, we were in TX. they have great laws for adoptive families and we worked with a great agency. I don't think bp's are turned off by military, but again they want to know you are stable so you know you have a couple of years coming off an overseas tour. Have you looked into a compassionate reassignment? I don't know if that is an option?