[amyfk]

Hi Dixie

Just want to let you know that I understand, I feel for you, and youre not alone. I worked as a part-time librarian for five years( I was there before management even came). I requested a 3 mo. unpaid leave of absence to be home when we came home with my baby from Russia. In the union contract I was able to ask for a leave, but I think they denied it because they didnt want to set a precedent for part-timers taking a leave.
It's very hard, having to choose between work and family. For all those years, I had a job as long as I wanted it, but I suffered because I couldnt have a child. Then I finally get the kid, and my work treats me like dirt.
Some folks say you can have the American dream, but I'm really not so sure that employers are all that understanding about balancing work and family. You would think so, since most employers have kids themselves.
I"m sure you will feel mixed emotions for awhile, but in the end you will realize at this stage that you have a young one at home and you did what you had to do for your family.
Just remember your son is only young once-and work will always be there.
tAke care of yourself,
Amy K, NJ