[JanetM]

Thanks to all of you for your responses. I will include a letter about the day Andrew was born-great idea! Also regarding the family tree... actually yesterday I found the perfect solution-I found in a book about birthparents a poster that I'm going to order. The poster is called "An Adoptees Family Tree Poster" and apparently it shows both the birthfamily tree and the adoptive-family tree. I think this may the perfect way to avoid potentially bothering the Aparents. I will go ahead and include Andrew in our tree and I am going to go ahead and include our last names.



Peace,