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Venting
Hi guys,
This is a good spot for me to vent and say things that I would never dream of saying to my wife.We are in a contested adoption for a few yrs now and it is not easy.I have a ritual I go through every morning to relieve my anger because if I carry it around I would be fired from my job and I would be getting a divorce.Sometimes it still is not enough.For example:
Yesterday I am talking to my wife and I tell her I have to get going and just then she says OK gotta go because ?? (attorney was calling). I spit out call me and she hung up.I called repeatedly from 10am till 2pm and could not get ahold of her.Frankly I got pissed!!!My last message left had the words "You better have a D*** good reason you are not answering this ___ phone.
Well come to find out it was not our attorney and she shut the phone off and took a nap.
To me it was a total lack of respect for me as far as what that type of thing does to me when we are in jeapordy of losing our daughter.I could honestly see the lawyer telling her that they were coming to get her and she left and pulled her from school and took off.
She told me not to leave messages like that.I told her to respect what I am going through with this adoption and I will not leave messages like that.We agreed but I still think she thinks I over reacted.
Has anyone else felt that although our wifes want us to be comforting they also lack respect because we are men and this type of thing is not suppose to worry us?
Thanks for listening
GOD BLESS
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