i was a rapee an me an my wife has worked out that problem. now we need to know how she can adopt our daughter, with out the consent of the raper, i have been raped many times before, but this one was a blessing i dont want nothing to do with him and i dont want him to have any thing to do with my daughter, he has had nothing to do with her in no shape for or matter, i would like to keep it that way. is there any kind of way my spouse can adopt her without the rapers consent. please tell me something soon. because she loves this little girl with all of her heart and really want her to be the mother as well.