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I agree that GSA is real - but I'd also suggest that in most reunions, the only past behaviour or experience we have to call on when we meet a person that we really want to connect to in a meaningful way is our "dating" experiences. I have heard so many people liken reunion to a dating situation. Being infatuated mentally with the person they are connecting to - and trying so very hard to be what that person wants - trying to be funny, witty, while wanting the touching and family intimacy that was severed at birth.
I wouldn't dwell on it ASL2007 - we all know in our own minds what inappropriate behaviour is - and I doubt you are wanting anything inappropriate - more something akin to a demonstrative show of parent/child love. Like curling up in the other's arms feeling safe and loved and trusting that they are going to be there for you.
Ann
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