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Hi Janetemac. You sound like a great mom who has her life together and you should be very proud of yourself. I'm a birthmom too, pregnant at 14 (he was 26) and now I raise a son and daughter.
In response your question, as much as you want to protect your birthson it would be wrong to say you don't know where bdad is. You can simply provide a photo if you have one and his contact info. Your son will figure things out all on his own. You need not comment one way or the other, he can do the math. All you can do is speak for yourself and your children and focus on developing a relationship with your bson. It's about you and your kids, all your kids, not the bdad.
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