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we did private adoption. we used a facilitator to find us a match and then laywers to handle all the legals. our bmom loved that we had so many kids and her baby would have lots of sibs to play with. it wasnt the cheapest route but i really wanted a newborn this time around, so thats why we did it this way. our state doesnt have any limit on adopting, i guess. no one ever said anything to me about it anyway. i know i couldnt foster because of the amount of kids - i think the limit is 5 for fostering. i would love to have a bakers dozen - DH is not so sure about it. but he wasnt sure about this baby either, until about a month before he was born and now i see the love in his eyes and it is great. our bmom has placed 2 children so far, so maybe ill get a sib from her. i told her to contact me directly next time to avoid the facilitator fee - lol!
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mom 2 many!!
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