[SadMomma]

I read a couple of articles on this, and it does look like the birth parents were taken advantage of. They put their child up for temp foster care due to not having healthcare for the child or money to take care of her. It was only suppose to be 90 days. On one hand if I was them i would have fought everyday for my child, but on the other hand she is now 8 and what damage would this do to her. The story i heard about the visitation is a fight broke out and the police told the bparents not to return. After 4 months the adoptive parents said they abandoned their child. I think this will be every hard being that they are planning to take the child to China. The transition will be huge because she won't be able to see her foster parents anymore. I wonder if i was the birthparents, would i have done what i think is best for the child and not take her our of the only enviroment she has ever known. As much as it would have hurt me, i might have but with the agreement i could have a relationship with my child. But i wasn't in their shoes.