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Lisa,
I just wrote you a long message on another page. But to answer some of these questions... I would LOVE to hear from my sons birthmom (I have been encouraging it but she hasn't responded yet). I would love to know that she likes the pictures we send or the little extras we include. I would like to know what she liked the most, just to give me some idea of what to send more of. I would like to know that she is well. That she is happy we are his parents. that she thinks we are doing a good job. That she sees that we love him so much. That she loves the pictures with his brother or with me or his Daddy. that she loves our home or the places we take him and is happy he has such a nice life. I have said before that adoption has twice the guilt. Not only am I guilt ridden about being a good mom, but I don't want to let her down. I would just love her to tell me that she sees I am giving it my all and that she is really happy to see that. Just to have her blessing and encouragement would be so nice.
Good luck, and don't over think it. Just write what is in your heart.
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