Hey Linny I am a birthmom and I to have read a lot of the posts ... let me start by saying you in no way have offended me by preferring a closed adoption and your views are not ones that you force ... you have given adoption whether open or closed a lot of thought .... and for that you have every right based on that thought to choose your "comfortable perameters" I support you and even though my adoption is "semi-open" I have no problem with your choice .. you are an eloquent well informed compassionate individual and those traits in themselves will benefit a child immensley ..... from a birthmother ........ i applaud you and supprt your convictions
stick to what you know you want .... and it will come to you