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I am the oldest and my little brother was born 5 years after. I must say that it makes me a bit sad to hear the stories of people feeling outta place. My Brother and I have never had any akward moments as a result of my reunion. I guess I got lucky. I remember when it was all happening, and it happened fast, he'd call and ask for the updates, and ask how I was feeling about it all, and he seemed excited for me. I always made a point of being very open with him about my feelings and such. He has always accompanied me to dinners and concerts with my bio-mom and her husband, and to all the other bio sisters, and brothers houses for bbqs.
Family isn't always based on blood and dna imo, it is based on unconditional love and understanding.
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