wow, what a story I will be here when you finish it up too. I thought it was a very heartfelt story.
You are in the VERY VERY small % of people who ended up still being with or married to the birthfather.
I am very sorry you had to go through that. Life throws curveballs at us at unknown times, today that happend to me and I know later I will look back on this and would be like wow this was nothing compared to what is going on now..........
I bet you feel like the family has grown greater now huh
with his 3 kids and you being a grandma again, sounds like you have a lot of love to give
I hope you have years and years of joy and reunion to come!