[kakuehl]

As you know, I was not a birthmom in an open adoption, but I guess you could say it's very open now. I think what I personally find offensive are the comments that I should stay out of D's life and not interfere like I plan to totally disrupt his relationship with his family, etc.

The belief or inference that if I placed my son for adoption he must not have mattered to me is painful (and can make be angry).