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This sounds like a terribly hard thing to be going through. Please try to remain strong. I think that there are so many emotions surrounding a reunion. I have been in reunion with my son for over a year now and I am just now realizing that he does have issues with me about giving him up. This all came up last weekend when his wife and I had a falling out. I have always thought he was pretty much ok with the situation, but I don't think he is. I didn't mean to get going on my story, but was just trying to say that there is so much stuff that is stashed away in both parties hearts in a reunion. I really think that the child would have more issues that the birth parent. It sounds like you are dealing with this very well. Maybe you could just try to keep a distance for a bit and maybe she would start feeling differently. It also sounds like she may be overloaded with crap in her life right now and that it could be playing into the situation with you. I wish you the best of luck. Reunion isn't as easy as I thought it would be. It seemed great in the beginning, but like I said those pent up emotions, held back over the years can really make things hard. Good luck and God bless..
Sally
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