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I have to agree with what the bmoms here are saying. We adopted our daughter at birth 2 1/2 years ago and met her bmom four months before our daughter was born. I thought many times in the past almost three years that she didn't have a bond with our daughter, everything seemed to come so easy to her concerning the adoption and letting the baby go. On Christmas night she called and told me that she was pregnant and happy because she thought it would help her to replace Castle. Today her mother called to tell me that she had miscarried the baby and was very upset. I think she just didn't want to let on that she was so hurt with the adoption and thought she could keep those feelings to her self. I think it hit everyone at a different time, some as it is happening and some, like our bmother, months or years later. The best advice I could give right now is to support her and pled with her to seek counseling now.
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