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I'm sorry to say Kathy, I don't think it's something you can or should convince your dh about. I really believe adoption should be something God lays on both your hearts. The government will be in every nook and cranny of your life. It will be like this until an adoption is finalized. From first entering the state to finalization can take a couple years. If he is not comfortable with that there might be problems. Home studies regardless where they come from are invasive. I encourage you to pray and ask the Lord, if it be His will that He would change your dh's heart otherwise give you peace and direction.
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Mommy by adoption to 2 beautiful boys, one born in '01, the other in '03. Now mommy to a new little girl born in '08, full bio to our oldest son. This adoption is in progress. We adopted through Oregon's DHS.
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