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How old is your son? I think nowadays, things are so much more open & accepting. But I am also going to say that every situation is unique and different.
In the case of my daughter (who is only 2 at this point in time) I will support her no matter what! I have no problem speaking with her birthparents and or siblings. If she wants a relationship with them when she is older, she has me and my husband's blessings.
In MY opinion, adoptive parents who have a major problem with their child having contact with their birthparents, have no confidence in their relationship with their children.
Again, this is just MY PERSONAL opinion (no generalizations). I think if you feel confident in your role as your child's parent, their should be no "fear", if and when they want to find their birth family.
All of the conflict between amom and bmom should be pushed aside for the sake of the child. This son or daughter is a product of BOTH.
God bless & Happy New year~
Julie
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