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Honestly - no we aren't the same. Our experiences are different, the social climate we placed in is different and therefore I think the way we grieve is different. We need to remember that we can learn from each other's experiences and that we can be great supports for each other. But, no one's pain is greater or grief is worse, it's just different.
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Taramayrn,
I didn't mean that we are all the same, what I meant was that we are all birthparents dealing with grief in some way. I do realise we are NOT the same, but I am still learning here and wanted a little insight from all sides. I have been made to feel and have tried to make others feel that I am open to all sides and all opinions of the triad. It was just a question that I was pondering, not intended to ruffle anyones feathers or point fingers. We are all different and we are all going through different situations. I came here for support and answers and to find a place I "belonged", like so many others before me and all the ones that will come after. Thank YOU to EVERYONE, for your honesty and for your insight! God Bless.