I know that alot of people have already replied to your post but I struggle with this everyday. I too have seven children 5 bio and 2 adopted. We have mine, he adopted him,his I adopted him ,, ours four girls we had to gether and then we adopted his sons half sister to keep them together. People are very judgemental about things that they don't know about. On woman said to her five yar old daughter in front of my kids. Move out of the womans way that doesn't know what birth contorl is. My older kids started asking questions. Then we ran into this ignorant womans again. This time we were in her way so I told my children to kindly move out of the way of this very ignorant lady aand of course my children asked my she was ignorant so I told them loudly so she could hear that that woman is very ignorant because she makes judgements on other peoples family without knowing the cercomstances of it. Her face dropped and that was that. I lvoe all my babies from my belly or my heart they all grow the same.... Never feel bad about all the things that you do for your family. Those children need you to be their mother and protector By protecting them you are defending them...They have a wonderful mother who care so much for them. Talk to your children about the comments that people make so that they understand what has happened that how you feel so they never feel that they should not be in a family that big. Best of Luck Carlynn Mom of seven beautiful babies.
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