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First of all, wow, I can't believe how rude people can be. It is unbelievable how some people just cannot understand how the words that come out of their mouth can affect someone in such a deep way. I'm so sorry for you guys that you had to go through conversations with people like that.
I get a lot of rude comments about Addy's birthmom. Of course there's always the Why did she give her up (funny how they NEVER ask about the bdad)? How much does the bmom get for it? (I'm assuming that they mean the adoption, but it sounds like it means the baby) Why do they not MAKE these people take bcontrol so that they stop having babies that they can't take care of?
Every one of these brings about a conversation that I feel is none of their business. I get the how much did it cost question all the time and it always starts with "if you don't mind me asking..." Well, if you think I will mind, which I do, DONT ASK!!
Hugs to you guys.
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Mandy
Formerly known as ph0enix_29
Mommy to 3 homegrown (B- 7, B- 5, G- 3) one Guatemalan princess
5/25 Accepted Referral of beautiful baby girl (bd 1/19/06)
12/5/2006 Welcome home Addisyn Lucia May!!!
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