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The reality of it is that we all grieve, open, closed, whatever its hard and some days even in a closed adoption I am ok. I enjoy talking to Bmoms who are in Open Adoptions, I live vicariously through them, yet I know they still have their pain. I think we are all looking for the same thing, Support, even when you cant relate, just knowing that even though we are on different paths we still have the same common reason for being here.
So in answer to your question, no 2 people are alike, but we as bparents do share a common bond.
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Michelle
"I have learned that people won't remember what you said to them, they won't remember what you did to them, but they will always remember how you made them feel"
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