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Adoptmom,
I feel compelled to answer again.
I think maybe you're looking for reassurance about your own situation (I noticed in your siggy that the baby is due Xmas day!). Like Brandy said, there is no crystal ball and no one "right" way.
What you're looking for is like asking, "what kind of aparents do bmoms like?" or "what kind of bmom places/doesn't change her mind?"
There is just no right answer, I'm sorry. You mentioned there seemed to be a bunch of failed adoptopns lately. I guess it's all where you're "at" b/c I haven't really noticed that many but I'm not in that "place" either. FWIW, it seemed as though, there were failed adoptions all around us when we were waiting too; we actually had a failed match! But DS came along a mere 3 mos later.
I am hoping that you are away from the forums b/c you are holding your baby! Keep in touch!
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S. J. born April 05
FINALIZED lucky Friday 10-13-06 
"And all the roads we have to walk are winding
And all the lights that light the way are blinding
There are many things that I
Would like to say to you but I don't know how...
Cause maybe
You're gonna be the one that saves me
And after all
You're my wonder wall"
Last edited by sadiegirl : 12-27-2006 at 06:31 AM.
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