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I have to agree with Christie (and Gigi). Sometimes there are a TON of red flags-no contact, etc. BUT sometimes the BP's lose contact right before birth b/c they are grieving but they place.
I know I did read once in the CIG to Adoption of signs that Bmom may parent but even those signs aren't foolproof.
I know AP's who had every red flag in the book and bmom placed and I know AP's who had NO red flags and bmom parented.
You just have to hold on and expect a bumpy ride.
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S. J. born April 05
FINALIZED lucky Friday 10-13-06 
"And all the roads we have to walk are winding
And all the lights that light the way are blinding
There are many things that I
Would like to say to you but I don't know how...
Cause maybe
You're gonna be the one that saves me
And after all
You're my wonder wall"
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