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for ours absolutely no signs. We were very close to our birthmom as we adopted her previous son. We talk on the phone, email, visit etc. She called us from the abortion clinic to say if we wouldn't adopt the new baby she was going inside, we were already planning on adopting another and to have a bio sibling we were thrilled. I traveled over an 8 hour drive once a month to go to dr's appts, where she told them I had to be involved because I was the parent. She even came to visit us and helped me put together the nursery, pick things out for him etc. We were in the delivery room, she notified the hospital of the pending adoption, we brought him home from the hospital and all seemed to be on track.
3 days after we had him with us and the morning she was to sign the TPR she called to say she wanted him back, despite ongoing phone calls those 3 days that she was so positive about her decision.
So a failed adoption can have all the red flags in the book and it can have absolutely none.
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Momma to Aidan, Owen & Elin !
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