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Brandy is right. I should not have put it the way I did. Yes, states may vary widely in their codes. She is also right that in educating yourself you can reduce the risk.
Also, I apologize if I sounded harsh at all. Many (maybe most?) adoptions go very smoothly. Please understand those of us on this board are the exceptions, I believe.
Brandy was also right about making sure the rights of EVERYONE are protected. This includes birthfathers, etc. Adoptions should protect the rights of birthfamilies as well as adoptive families, and of course the child.
Wishing you all the best in your journey.
C.
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