Your son is only 3 years old. When he does start to ask you about the where and why's and the how's. But you need to tell him how babys come into the world first by telling him the story of when God talked to the verin Mary. That is a good start. Then later when he ask you about himself thats when you make sure he knows you wanted him and you love him. Gently you can then tell him about his birth mother and all that you know of her and why she gave him up. Just remember that all children needs to know who the woman is who brought them into the world. Always give him the loving care and happy home he needs. He will always love you back for giving him that happy life you provided him with. There will come a time that he will want to know his birth mother. Thats alright! Give him that chance by helping him find her. Dont worry about losing him because you wont. He will always love you because you are the only mother he has ever known. He just has two moms:-) By the time he is ready to find her which will probably be when he's in his teen years or older. I hope this has helped you.
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Mary