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Hi User!
What an interesting thread and probably a very common situation in reunions. I am using a C.I. to locate my son. In the meantime I found out that his birthfather is a raging alchoholic ( I haven't seen him in 30 years) and now I'm afraid that either my son may be alchoholic (I understand it's very prevalent in the BF's family). OR it could be that maybe my son is better off not knowing his BF. Gawd, alchohol wreaks havoc on so many lives. I think you owe it to yourself to give your B-mother a chance, however when the time is right voice your fears to her, and see how she responds. That should help you decide which way you want to go as far as establishing a permanent relationship with her. Be careful sweetie, you know you're predisposed to alchoholism, but it sound to me like you REALLY have your head on straight.
Merry Christmas!!!
Kim
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