Monica,
I am a birth mother and have had the same ? you have. I am just beginning to search for my daughter, but I have prayed so often about this same situation. Your decision has to be God's time. If you are still unsure, take time to pray and be still, this way Jesus has a chance to speak to you. God's time, not ours.
I fear to disrupt her life and I think she has the same fear. But, I just want to tell her that I am there and if she chooses to have me a part of her life i am willing, but if she chooses not to, that is also fine with me. I just want her to know I am there and the door is open for her.
My advice is PRAY PRAY PRAY
God Bless You
and trust in the God of your understanding.
If anyone has a responce my e-mail address is
tims1grl@aol.com