[DoreenG]

I live next door to NH, and moved here from the Southwest. First, I have no idea what WY stands for? Am I dumb?

Anyway, from a standpoint of growing up in the desert to moving to the NE, I can tell you I really expected much worse as the winters go. Basically, it just rains a lot here. Way more than I ever expected, and I'm guessing it does as well in NH.

The state is tiny, so while there is only the one major interstate, it's not like it takes forever to get anywhere. (again, I'm comparing it to AZ and NM)

The roads are always clear in the winter by the afternoon after the storm. It is dark early in the winter, but the summers make up for it. The fall colors are amazing.

And we moved here from the southwest because of the services were so much more plentiful here. However, I have no idea what your kids' special needs might really entail. Do you need a top-notch GI person? Etc.

Also, I would investigate which states allow/accept the Katie Beckett Medicaid waiver. That piece of paper has been a lifeline/godsend to us. The services allowed under it in our state have made our lives calm enough that we are able to pursue adopting a child and adding to our brood.

Remember, no matter where you move, it will take AT LEAST one full year to acclimize to the climate, the new house, new neighborhood, feeling like you won't be totally lost every time you leave the house, feeling like you might have a friend somewhere, for the kids to get used to their new schools, busses, teachers, etc. One full year is a long time to have patience when your plate is full, but wow, if you're ready for a move, the NE/New England area is really a wonderful place to raise kids. So much infrastructure...libraries, pools, kid events and sports, support groups, medical services (Boston U is not far from anywhere in NE really), etc.

Best of luck in your decision making!