[gracesbmom1213]

Ok, Stace - just shut D out, she's CRAZY!!!!! I've been telling you that for years okay that's done

I don't agree w/ what D did to begin with, she is not right in the head..... But I can say that I've had contact with her previously...... Try and continue contact w/ the older brother b/c it's what is best for YOUR two kids, the cousins might not see it as what's best for the old sibling, but they are dellusional to begin with, calling themselves mom and dad without anything signed.....the nerve..........

I'm a firm supporting in biological siblings staying in contact as much as humanly possible whether one is placed with one family and raised by the bmom (my situation now) or going through what you are dealing with. It is best for the child of adoption ESPECIALLY in an open adoption to have a fully open adoption, all parties included and guess what that means brothers and sisters.

Now, Gracie may not end up having the closest relationship w/ Logan as she grows up but she's not a dumb kid, she's going to figure out, 'okay I came from Sarah's tummy and so did Logan, I guess since Sarah is my bmom that makes logan my half brother' And Billy and Lexi will figure that out too.......and so w/ the older brother......... We aren't giving these kids enough credit.