[billysmommy]

I guess I am not really even sure if *I* want to push the issue. It's one of those situations where everyone has an opinion on what is "best", but it has to be "best" for everyone involved. And I don't think I know what is best. Yes, I love this little boy very much - partly because he is my kids brother, and partly because he is just an awesome kid - but I have seen the effects that seeing his siblings has had on him. And while my kids love him, and enjoy spending time with him, it's not something that they long for (right now anyway). I don't have any real interest in forming a relationship with these people - it's supposed to be temporary anyway. Ugh, I don't even know what I am asking......