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Originally Posted by bubbles_girl2003
I am so scared right now. I'm not sure if I should put my baby up for adotion or not. If I keep the baby then I'll see the person who raped me every day but if I put the baby up for adoption I'll spend the rest of my life wondering if he or she is okay. What do I do?
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I actually know someone who kept a baby that she had as a result of date rape.
She loves him but didn't bond as well as she did with her second child.
The boy, now 18, knows it. He loves his mom, but it isn't the kind of relationship his little brother has.
You could ask of a open, as in letters and pictures, so that you know how the child is, without having a relationship.
Remember you will not forget having this baby.
good luck