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Hi Kathy,
Thanks. I know you understand. We have talked before and I appreciate your kindness. I also understand you as a birthmom having the desire to have a relationship with your birthson.
What you said about "adoption is not until the REAL parents come back into their child's life" is how I felt many times. When my daughter met her birthmom I certainly felt like I was a good babysitter until..................! I had a hard time finding my place.
My daughter and her birthmom have a great relationship and I am jealous. Our relationship was bittersweet. She loved me and hated me all at the same time. What she has been looking for is found. I feel so left out in the cold sometimes.
She calls me more often and the other day she called just to say "I Love You." I needed sooooo much to hear that. Things are better.
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smiles are on
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