[kakuehl]

Love 4, I'm a birthmom but I hear your pain. I would have been very upset if D rejected his aparents. Adoption is not an "as long as I feel like it" or only till the "real" (and who are they if not the aparents?) parents come back into the child's life. I'm happy D wishes me to be part of his life - I truly feel an incredible connection to him -- but it's not the same relationship he's had with the parents who raised him.