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I'm so sorry Jannyroo. This has not been my experience so I don't have a lot of advice. Spend some time deciding what the parameters are for you in this relationship. Let him know that you are not rejecting him, but you can't cope with some of his behaviors right now. Tell him he's welcome to contact you but he must take responsibitity for his own actions; that you look forward to the day that he is clean. That you want a positive relationship with him. (Assuming the above is true!)
My reunion (about 14 months now) is going very well and yet... While we are comfortable with each other we don't communicate at a very deep level. He has shared some about what it was like for him growing up, but not what he feels about me then or now. On the other hand, he believes our relationship is healthy.
I believe in hope (and in prayer). As long as there is life, possibility of change exists.
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