[bajj]

Originally Posted by 2manyks

we are probably a mystery too. we already have 11 children and are awaiting the birth of our 12th. people dont say it to me, but they say it to my friends & family, looking for our secret. they want to know how come we "get" so many when they can't 'find' one. 'it's not fair'. 'how did they get that baby so easy' and one of my favorites, 'why do they get a 'normal' baby, they should only take special needs because they already have so many 'normal' kids. as if special needs is second place or saving the healthy children for a more deserving family. i've heard it all and i am insulted by it. we do everything right, legal and ethical. we just don't talk a lot about it, especially to the casual friends. it is very private and really not our story to tell, it is our childs story.

WOW! Congratulations to you! 12 kids...what a wonderful blessing for your family!