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Becca i'm in the same boat. My bd just contacted myself a couple days ago, quite a SHOCK!! All I can say is stay in touch with her, it doesn't matter if you arn't the same person what's important is the bio connection and a longterm relationship. go slow, let it happen and enjoy the ride.
My fear is I don't know if I want to meet mine f2f because i'd be heartbroken if she didn't want to have more then that and I don't want the heart break of separation again. Isn't there a book or something on the market to help birthparents like us? i could also use some sage wisdom on what to say and what not to say to a bc.
lostrmarbles
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